Paul Kasyanik, PhD
Friday Dec 5th
The Missing Link in Couples Therapy: How Schema Therapy Unlocks the Breakthrough Other Models Can’t
Every couples therapist knows this pair. They have mastered every tool, naming their attachment wounds mid-argument, using flawless “I” statements, and tracking their cycles with precision. Yet one glance, one tone, one Saturday morning in the produce aisle, and everything falls apart.
Research tells the same story. Even in the best outcome studies, 30 to 40 percent of couples fail to sustain gains. The problem is not a lack of skill. Many of these partners are driven by schema-based dynamics that traditional attachment or behavioral models cannot reach.
These are not avoiders running from fear. They are overcompensators who attack vulnerability itself. Contempt, control, and punitive defenses protect against shame so deeply rooted that safety alone will not soften them. Schema Therapy explains why. The attachment injuries we try to repair are symptoms of unhealed schemas that keep recreating the wound.
This presentation teaches you how to recognize when schemas, not skills, drive the cycle and how to intervene where change truly begins. Through the Healthy Mode Triad, Connection Dialogues, and imagery rescripting for couples, participants will learn how to go beyond pattern management and foster real schema healing that lasts.
Thursday Dec 4th
KEYNOTE: THE EVIDENCE-BASED MODEL OF SCHEMA THERAPY BY JEFFREY YOUNG COMPARED WITH EMERGING MODELS
What makes Schema Therapy so effective with clients other treatments can’t reach? In this powerful session, Dr. Joan Farrell and Dr. Paul Kasyanik—renowned researchers, trainers, and international leaders—reveal the evidence that sets Schema Therapy apart. They’ll unpack the landmark trials that proved its effectiveness across complex disorders and examine what happens when new adaptations stray from that research base.
Discover what the data actually show about how real change happens and why the simplicity of Dr. Young’s original model remains its greatest strength. Walk away with renewed confidence in using a therapy that doesn’t just promise transformation but delivers it, session after session.