Maria Galimzyanova, PhD
Friday Dec 5th
NAVIGATING THE CHALLENGES OF MODE CLASHES IN PARENT-TEEN CONFLICTS
Few dynamics are as emotionally charged as conflicts between parents and adolescents. Schema Therapy offers a powerful framework for understanding these struggles through the concept of mode clashes—moments when both parent and child respond from maladaptive modes, locking into patterns that escalate tension and block connection.
This presentation explores how schemas and unmet needs drive these recurring battles and demonstrates how identifying mode clashes can help families move from blame to understanding. Attendees will learn practical interventions to help parents and adolescents recognize their own modes, de-escalate reactivity, and uncover the underlying needs behind each person’s behavior.
Through vivid examples and live demonstration, Ida Shaw and Maria Galimzyanova will show how Schema Therapy helps families shift from control and defiance to empathy and collaboration. Participants will leave with actionable strategies to transform conflict into repair and connection.